Exploring a “Memory Loss” Support Group

Today, for the first time, I went to a local memory loss caregivers support group.  I didn’t know what to expect, but I think it may be a helpful thing for me to try to go fairly regularly.  The challenge will be figuring out how to juggle the time against work commitments.

Not shockingly, but still embarrassingly, I totally broke down during my introduction.  But they were supportive and non-judgmental about it.  I was the youngest person there by probably 20yrs.

I never fashioned myself the support group type- but apparently I just needed something this difficult to legitimately need one for.


Couple takeaways from today:

  1. Check that I have medical and financial power of attorney.  Understand it a bit more.
  2. Find out whether there’s a long-term care policy- or what it would cost to get one now.
  3. Get the actual driver’s license taken away and replaced by just an ID.

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